My life lesson has been to have a better relationship with my mother and learn to love her.
Mothers can be hard to understand; as a young adult we can be just finding our own way in the world
But feel we weren’t totally free.
Some mothers seem to have a hold on their children consciously or unconsciously.
Are you free to be yourself, or is your mother instilling her ways on you?
We don’t realise the intensity of our relationship with our mother;
She’s the one we bond with at birth.
Are you battling with your mother? Or are you totally in love with your mother?
Dealing with my mother was important for me to learn to understand myself.
For me it was an effort to be close to my mother; due to our life circumstances that caused us to have distance between us.
However, time heals, and the geometry of life is love and so the intertwining of mother and child can heal over time.
And each can be their own individual self when understanding is reached.
Read about my relationship with my mother in my secret series
If you feel like some of your behaviours derive from the patterns influenced by your mother, contact me for a free 15 minute consultation.