Blog
I have written a series of blogs about my childhood experiences explaining the complications and patterns that form from conditioning’s and programmings by family. Many of us are unaware of the implications of the behaviours and patterns of family members and the impacts it has on a child.
These blogs are an introduction to the my secret self series and the experiences I had encountered and later in life had to address. This led me on a journey of self-discovery to understand the role of the family members and the patterns I took on unaware. These patterns formed in the early stages of my childhood and once I was aware of the impact and the deeper understanding of why certain things were allowed to happen in the family, then I could live a normal life.
To learn more about my journey, see where you can get a copy of my books here.
Face the Fear
When fear raises its ugly head don’t run away from it; face the fear and welcome it. When we try to run from the fear or bury the fear deep within, it will resurface on and off until you acknowledge it. Because the soul wants you to know it to heal it when it’s time...
Your Script
My Secret Self: Trials and Tribulations of an Innocent: family relationships have a significant bearing on one’s life. Family with all its diversity - how did I shift through all I’d learned and observed? How did I see through the conditionings I was taught? It’s not...
Dropping Masks
Self-Knowledge is the best knowledge one can have. I have always been in tune with myself but journeying in Turkey opened me on a greater level of self-realization; a level I’d never open on in my own country. When we are living away from family and friends we can be...
A New Land to Understand the Self In
I have written on the sexual abuse I went through. I wrote my books in Istanbul when I lived there. I was fortunate enough to find the right people. I did Reiki with a lady that helped me to bring all to the surface to be able write my story. I had some emotional...
Love
Love is the answer they say and years ago in some of my crisis situations and in the process of processing my life I could have made someone eat those words: because in that stressful crisis going on in me; that was the last thing I wanted to hear: love will solve it....
Hidden Self
We are all usually carrying some hidden issues to our self. Words can have a devastating effect on us as a child up into adulthood. Words can affect our wellbeing and those words can stay with us all our lives buried in the subconscious mind coming up when we get...
Losing and Finding Freedom
My journey in my book will tell you of how the seven years old, had accepted the abuse from my father. However, unbeknown to me this story has to unfold another story; to that story and that will take me in search for answers to understand what had happened. However,...
Let Go
The saddest thing a person can do to themselves is hold onto grief, resentments and regrets these emotions will tie you to a perpetual cycle of misery and in that cycle you not only inflict yourself but you pull down those around you in your situation. Move forward...
My Spiritual Journey
I understand the greater reason for being and I know that we are connected to a higher power that guides us and supports us during our trials and tribulations. We aren’t alone we are cared for and supported in our quests we are here to face. And we are here to face...
Life
Can you thoroughly enjoy your life? Can you give yourself the best you can in your short years here on this planet? The journey here is a short journey and we will face many issues and I feel this planet is set up to find out how we cope in a given situation, And to...