Relationships have a significant bearing on one’s life. Families are so diverse and I often wondered how I did shift through all I observed, learned and was taught. Families influence our perceptions of life until we unravel the falsehoods to find the truth for ourselves. False family beliefs have a lot to answer to; it’s no one’s fault – we are all brought up in a family of some sort, be it biological or in another caretaker’s placement. So it’s up to us as we grow up and mature to change what we were conditioned into if we are not happy with our lives. Only we can change ourselves. So don’t blame others; they were only doing the best they could. Just say to yourself this is enough and I’m committing myself to change that, that doesn’t resonate with me.